Ok, one more. I'm thinking of trying the KonMari tidying thing on my house. Feeling a little like it's a fad and thus I am suspicious, but also I am tired of all the accumulated stuff and associated emotional baggage.

Am also pondering how to manuver Justin and I into separate bedrooms. He knows it will happen some day, but it may need to be soon. Don't you two do that? Is it something you did from the start or something you moved towards?