I got about five paragraphs into that blog article and had to back out because yeah, that's just gonna dredge up stuff I've had to let go in the interest of maintaining a good relationship. Basically, I'm the husband in that relationship described and I've had to do some serious work not letting myself get bothered by the messes and clutter in our house.

TBH, my clock alarm for sexytimes has never been before bed, so that hasn't been a problem with the separate sleeping arrangements. I'm much more a late-afternoon girl. Sex after work, then dinner, then whatever (yoga, movie, reading, etc.), then bed.