That's so frustrating. I'm really sorry. :( Perhaps a brief, polite note of apology to her mother, apologizing for making her uncomfortable and explaining that you haven't had contact with anyone outside your own household for X number of days so she doesn't need to worry (or explaining how you've limited what contact you've had and why) might make her feel better? Even if it doesn't lead to better relations, I bet it would be appreciated, and who knows? She might feel more relaxed about you in the future. (I know she doesn't read English, but something short that your friend could translate for her might not come amiss.) I can totally understand that she was blindsided by you suddenly showing up; if she knows more about your own situation maybe she won't be so uptight at least about her daughter seeing you. Just throwing out ideas, feel free to ignore me. ^_^;