I keep hearing about KonMari and I feel the need to google it just to keep up my internet street cred. I'm leery, though, because I have given up keeping my house tidy (let's just...not get into that, okay?) and reading about tidy stuff would probably just make me irritable about my own untidy house.

Yes, mckitterick and I sleep separately. It was kind of a joint decision but I definitely kicked off the process by saying something along the lines of "I need to start getting better sleep and I think I would do that if you just weren't here in bed with me." Good luck negotiating your own separate sleeping arrangements. It has a such a stigma in our society and that's really too bad.