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clevermanka ([personal profile] clevermanka) wrote2015-06-16 09:36 am
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Talk to me

Here are some variations on tendonitis stretches that I've not seen before.


A lot of these movements for building a bullet-proof core require gym equipment, but they look amazing.

Today's Tumblr is Tuesday, June 16: Water.

Talk to me, people. It's gonna be another slow day for me. I'm open to topics of conversation. Mad Max meta? The contents of Chris Pratt's trousers? General sex talk? Venting about social ills? Discussions of craft projects? Whatever, people. I'm dying, here.

[identity profile] clevermanka.livejournal.com 2015-06-16 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I keep hearing about KonMari and I feel the need to google it just to keep up my internet street cred. I'm leery, though, because I have given up keeping my house tidy (let's just...not get into that, okay?) and reading about tidy stuff would probably just make me irritable about my own untidy house.

Yes, [livejournal.com profile] mckitterick and I sleep separately. It was kind of a joint decision but I definitely kicked off the process by saying something along the lines of "I need to start getting better sleep and I think I would do that if you just weren't here in bed with me." Good luck negotiating your own separate sleeping arrangements. It has a such a stigma in our society and that's really too bad.

[identity profile] kazoogrrl.livejournal.com 2015-06-16 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)

This is a nice summary of one person's experience:


http://rvanews.com/news/a-true-account-of-the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up/124633


A couple I know have two rooms and love it. I really want my bedroom to be a sanctuary and J is SO MESSY. Also, I sleep better alone, and am not a cuddly person in bed. On the other hand, I'm worried about it screwing up sexytimes because my drive is low enough that I could see blowing it off because I literally don't think about it. Or, maybe making it more purposeful would be a bonus.

[identity profile] clevermanka.livejournal.com 2015-06-16 06:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I got about five paragraphs into that blog article and had to back out because yeah, that's just gonna dredge up stuff I've had to let go in the interest of maintaining a good relationship. Basically, I'm the husband in that relationship described and I've had to do some serious work not letting myself get bothered by the messes and clutter in our house.

TBH, my clock alarm for sexytimes has never been before bed, so that hasn't been a problem with the separate sleeping arrangements. I'm much more a late-afternoon girl. Sex after work, then dinner, then whatever (yoga, movie, reading, etc.), then bed.

[identity profile] kazoogrrl.livejournal.com 2015-06-16 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)

Seriously, bedtime is for BEDTIME. I tend to default to the morning because hey, I'm there and I'm awake!