What, you don't like being marginalized, exoticized and sexualized? What's wrong with you? Can't you see I'm a Nice Guy? You women, you only want the jerks who take you to nice places and wine and dine you but don't try to explore your character as it is your life! Or to inspire, survive and hope you!
Seriously, the whole, "let me be totally insensitive to you as a woman and to human beings in general, and then tell you that you've offended my intelligent, informed, enlightened self when you protest my shittiness" dynamic that many men hide behind as an excuse pisses me right the hell off. It's indicative of a complete inability to understand that others are full human beings with feelings, not objects to be picked up, played with, and discarded later when one is bored. It's a form of gaslighting, and it's plain dismissive of the other person's intelligence and ability to interpret discourse. Pisses me. Right the hell. Off. We are human beings, god dammit, not future lays.
Oh trust me, we are not future lays, dude.
And why do these guys also not know how to spell, type or compose a coherent sentence? What the f*(# does "typative" mean, anyway? Also, "as genuine as the come" made my inner 13-year old go, "ewwwwwww..."
(Edited for increased clarity, and to not stick myself in the same "typative" category. I swear, that's my new word from now on in!)
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Seriously, the whole, "let me be totally insensitive to you as a woman and to human beings in general, and then tell you that you've offended my intelligent, informed, enlightened self when you protest my shittiness" dynamic that many men hide behind as an excuse pisses me right the hell off. It's indicative of a complete inability to understand that others are full human beings with feelings, not objects to be picked up, played with, and discarded later when one is bored. It's a form of gaslighting, and it's plain dismissive of the other person's intelligence and ability to interpret discourse. Pisses me. Right the hell. Off. We are human beings, god dammit, not future lays.
Oh trust me, we are not future lays, dude.
And why do these guys also not know how to spell, type or compose a coherent sentence? What the f*(# does "typative" mean, anyway? Also, "as genuine as the come" made my inner 13-year old go, "ewwwwwww..."
(Edited for increased clarity, and to not stick myself in the same "typative" category. I swear, that's my new word from now on in!)