Plotting is the new Emotions

Ugh, I do not know how to incorporate plot. *headdesk* I have all these (I think) charming personal interaction scenes with no Actual Plot besides They Are Living In A Haunted House And Things Keep Getting More Weird While Zhao Yunlan Falls In Love With A Ghost.

Two full months of story-time have passed and I know the Scary Thing that's gonna happen in a couple months, and then the Slightly Worse Thing that happens a couple months after that, and then the Final Really Bad Thing. And I know where and how the sex scenes happen (because Priorities), but an actual cohesive plot is...not gelling.

Is this a problem? If it is a problem, anyone got suggestions? My last two days of writing have been very unsatisfying because half my brain is yelling YOU NEED A PLOT and the other half is DO I REALLY and I'm just kinda... /o\